[MUST READ!] CHRIS BROWN CHARGED FOR ASSAULTING/THREATNING RHIANNA!

So its official ya'll Chris brown has been charged with assaulting Rhianna and threatening her as well. Me i am so glad he is finally getting what he deserves now all we need is for him to face the consequences and that's by putting him in jail! AND not only that now we have the REAL story to why this whole thing happened ! Supossssssssedly Chris brown had received a text message from a female friend, miss Rhianna had read the text message and started you know "Cussing". An argument had begun and supposedly Chris brown had tried shoving Rhianna out of the car but couldn't because she had her seat belt on so then he "allegedly" shoved Rhianna's head against the passenger seat window, when Rhianna turned to face him, Chris brown punched her, then continued on punching her while he was driving. There was blood splattered on Rhianna's dress and in the interior of the car. Rhianna's mouth was filled with blood. Chris brown had allegedly told Rhianna that he was going to "beat the shit/fuck out of you when we get home, you wait and see". So then Rhianna called her assistant and left a message on the answering machine telling her/him that she was going home and to make sure that the cops were there when she got there THEEEEENNNN Mr Chris brown had allegedly told her that "you just did the stupidest thing ever. I'm going to kill you." IT DOES'NT EVEN END THERE!!!...later on Chris brown CONTINUED to punch Rhianna in the face he BIT her on her ear and fingers AND put her in a headlock, she almost lost consciousness.

THIS MAN IS CRAZYYY!!!!...WTH?...HE GON' PUT A WOMAN IN A HEADLOCK???...U SERIOUS??...OMGG I AM OFFICIALLY AN DI MEAN OFFICIALLY NO LONGER A CHRIS BROWN FAN! HE HAS LOST A MAJOR FAN! AND I SERIOUSLY HOPE HIS CAREER GOES DOWN THE DRAIN ASAP!!!!!...HOW CAN A MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON A WOMAN LIKE THAT AND THEN THREATEN TO TAKE HER LIFEE??? ARE YOU SERIOUS CHRIS? OMG IF ME AND CHRIS WERE IN THE SAME ROOM I SWEAR I'D WALK OUT OF THAT ROOM WITH HIS HEAD IN MY HANDS NO WORD OF A LIE! THIS IS JUST DISGUSTING WHEN I WAS READING THIS I WAS SO SHOCKED THAT THIS DESPICABLE CREATURE THAT HE IS WHO CALLS HIMSELF A HUMAN CAN DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS!!!! THIS IS OUTRAGEOUS!! AND THEN YOU GOT HIS STUPID FANS SUPPORTING HIM AND SAYING THAT IT WAS JUST A MISTAKE AND TO GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE!!!! THERE ARE NO OTHER CHANCES!!! ARE YOU SERIOUS??? ONCE A MAN LAYS HIS HANDS ON A WOMAN ONCE! HE GON' DO IT AGAIN!!! AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAIN!!! THIS IS LIKE SOME IKE AND TINA TURNER CRAPP LIKE WOOOOOOOOOOW AND NOW AM ALSO HEARING THAT RHIANNA IS GETTING BACK WITH HIM? HONESTLY IF THIS IS TRUEE THIS GIRL IS ALSOO CRAZYY BECAUSE ITS LIKE SHES ASKING TO GET BEAT UP OR KILLED BY THE MAN! WHY WOULD YOU PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION LIKE THAT?...I MEAN I KNOWW YOU LOVE AND BLAH BLAH BUT IF THE MAN IS CAPABLE OF THREATENING YOUR LIFE WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HES NOT CAPABLE OF ACTUALLY DOING IT? HONESTLY I HOPE AND PRAY THAT THIS WHOLE RHIANNA AND CHRIS GETTING BACK TOGETHER THING IS A LIE CUZ IF IT IS I WILL BE ONE TICKED OFF PERSON BECAUSE THATS JUST MESSED UPP TO HAVE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL LIKE RHIANNA GO BACK WITH AN IDIOT LIKE CHRIS BROWN!

CHRIS BROWN YOU ARE OFFICIALLY ON MY HATE LIST!!!!

xoxo

Baarbie

HIGHSCHOOL!

So Tomorrow I've decided to go back to my old high school and i am SUPER NERVOUS!...i mean like i know your wondering why is this girl nervous to go back? well the truth is that i only graduated last year and lets just Say that i was or still am in my eyes and to alot of peoples eyes a LEGEND at that school. I ran my high school! me and my glitter girls were all up in that school! nobody ever messed with us. It was always our way or the highway, and that unfortunately caused alot of problems between me and my girls and other students at our school...more specifically me. See the thing was that N.D. couldn't handle a girl like me. I mean is it my fault that I'm an outspoken, loud, funny, don't forget gorgeous girl? I mean I'm a city girl living in a village for god sakes! what do they expect?...anyways most of the people at my old high school are more used to the old quietness and dullness of the whole thing and i wasn't going to sit there and put up with it...so me and my girls decided to shake things up a bit... yes that landed us into getting a bunch of detentions ESPECIALLY me(i graduated and still have outstanding detentions) that's how bad i was...and it also landed us(ME) into not getting along with the staff members(TEACHERS/PRINCIPALS) at our school. I mean personally to me i felt like at the time the teachers and principals needed to let loose like come on its HIGH SCHOOL for god sakes!! WERE TEENAGERS! i mean were not 60 year olds here! let us have our fun! but they just wouldn't they would find every way to try and take our fun away, whether it was kicking us out of the school spectrum every lunch, or suspending us for consecutive days, they tried their hardest to control us. But i wasn't going to let them win. See me I'm the type of person where is i want my way i will go so Farr to get it, and it doesn't matter who i hurt while I'm doing it. Unfortunately at times i ended up hurting teachers that truly really did care for me. But I've learnt from it, and have grown up. High school was more of a trial and error thing for me...i did alot of stupid things and learnt from it. I personally think that if i didn't act the way i did in high school i would be a totally person today, high school truly really made me realize who i really am, whether it meant being named biggest drama queen of my graduating class or being a legend at N.D. i don't regret doing ANYTHING that i did at that school. and as much as i used to rant on about me hating that school...i actually loved it!...and if i could go back just for one Day i would totally do it!...to all the high school students reading this cherish your high school moments really REALLY hard because once your out of there i guarantee you your gonna want to go back!...LOL now i know why old people smile when they look back at they're high school years...lol i sometimes find myself doing he exact same thing...kinda funny actually.

xoxo

Baarbie

Over Protective Parents

So here I am once again in my room in this boring old city they call London...and i decided to write a new blog on over protective parents. See me i have parents that love me dearly and pretty much give me anything that i ask for, I'm very fortunate to come from a loving family and to have loving parents like mine.BUUUUTTTT with each loving parents that people may have comes also the over protective side of them...and Boy are my parents TOO OVER PROTECTIVE...i mean don't get me wrong i love my parents and all and they are supposed to watch over me or what not...but i just feel like sometimes i need to do things on my own and sometimes my parents don't give me that privilege...but I've seen worst cases TRUST ME I've seen kids who parents who won't even let them walk outside past 6(YEA I KNOW)...now if that were my case I'd probably go crazy considering the amount times i go out with my girls...but i just think that some parents need to realize that there comes a certain point and time where your child needs to be independent and where you need to let them make mistakes so that they are able to learn.
Because i know alot of parents don't want their kids making MAJOR mistakes or anything like that but you also gotta know that we need to make mistakes in our lives ESPECIALLY when were younger so that we can learn from those mistakes and be able to move forward from that. If we don't make mistakes how are we supposed to know right from wrong? our parents just telling us that this is right or wrong doesn't always do the trick....ANOTHER major thing about this is that parents also need to know that telling your kids what to do IS NOT always going to work. I remember when i was younger i used to do things just because i knew that it would make my parents mad(DO NOT ATTEMPT THIS KIDS) but I'm just saying most kids ESPECIALLY around the age of 12-19 like to be a sort of rebels, they like to do what they wanna do and they're definitely not going to let they're parents tell them what to do. That's just the teenage hood. You parents went through it as well so you gotta know that your kids are bound to go through it as well...should you put some rules and boundaries in place with your kids? YES do it but you gotta also be able to compromise with your child, so that both of you can make a good conclusion and both parties are happy...telling them what to do and not discussing it with your child is probably one of the WORST ways to get through to your kid...talking is Key and being able to compromise with your child as well. If you use these techniques i ASSURE you that you will not be having any problems with your children. I didn't have these type of opportunities when i was younger to be able to compromise with my parents and all that i had to learn the hard way loll and that was by misbehaving but i have come to realize that there are better ways to make yourself happy but also your parents.

xoxo

Baarbie

FACEBOOK

So here i am right and I'm supposed to be doing my assignment that is due the next day for my class and i keep getting distracted on facebook!!! i have over 1000 friends on facebook and everyday i get at least 80 notifications on random stuff and at least 25 inbox messages with at least 5-10 friend requests!!!! an you believe that!!! i don't get facebook sometimes its so friggin addicting!! i don't Even recall myself being so addicted to MYSPACE this bad!! i swear they put some sort of voodoo in it in order to get us addicted to it because i cant seem to be getting off facebook!!! i check my facebook at least 15 times a Day yes people 15 TIMES A DAY!! i check it more then my e-mails!!! its unbelievable...facebook has like revolutionised e-mails people don't e-mail each other anymore they facebook each other! if you ant to keep in touch with someone or send someone something there is no longer the need to have to use e-mail you can just do it on facebook! i don't think any other social networking site will ever be able to compete with facebook...even myspace is going down the drain! and we all used to love myspace!!! but oh well!..i gotta admit i LOVE ME SOME FACEBOOK!!! it keeps me connected with my people you know?...and you meet so many new people on facebook...I've met so many new people its unbelievable!...but yea back to the fact that i had an assignment due the next day but couldn't do it cuz i was stuck on facebook!!...guess what happened it was due at midnight and i TOTALLY forgot to do it and dint hand it in and got a BIG FAT ZERO!!...35 percent DOWN THE DRAIN! DARN YOU FACEBOOOK!!!...lol:P...but yea now i kinda know how to handle myself and all that...if its an assignment where i do not need the Internet i disconnect my Internet t prevent myself from using it...i suggest to people to do the same if there are some of you who are facebook addicts like me:D...ANYWAYS I GOT SOME MORE HOMEWORK TO DOO!!!! ERGH I THINK THAT WILL BE MY NEXT TOPIC TO TALK ABOUT...HOMEWORK!!!!

xoxo

BAARBIE

Chris Brown and Rhianna

so here i am doing this blog thing again i really do like it and like i said in my previous blog I'm new to all this so bare with me here people!!! but anyways u i decided to do my next one on this whole Chris brown and Rhianna thing. basically where i stand with this is that i feel like people need to realize that what Chris did was COMPLETELY wrong!! i don't understand how people can say things like since Rhianna provoked it she deserved what she got that is the most ignorant and disgusting comment that I've ever heard! no woman should ever EVER be physically abused no matter the circumstances! i don't care if Rhianna gave him aids or stabbed in the arm or slapped him across the face no man should ever EVER put his hands on a woman. This topic is very touchy to me because i know alot of women who have been through this type of things and it is one of the HARDEST things to get over. domestic abuse affects woman around the world every single day and its sad to See people saying that's its OK for a man to physically abuse a woman if she steps up to him? so what woman cant step up to a man now because they're more "superior" then us? COME ON!!! give me a break! i just saw the image of Rhianna after she went to the police station and i gotta say its disgusting i jumped the first time i saw it. Chris Brown is not a human being hes an animal for doing something like this to a woman so beautiful and so much potential in her life.

I hope Chris knows that he just threw his career down the drain and i hope he sees such great consequences for his actions. It disgusts me to see people still supporting this despicable creature. All the best towards Rhianna and her family and rhi rhi I hope u feel better!!!

xoxo

Baarbie

confessions of Black Baarbie

So basically this is my first blog and I've decided to do my first blog on what better then myself! So here I am on this blog thingy and already I have no clue what to write. Well let me start by writing why I decided to start this. Well I'm the type of person who loves to express her opinion on anything and everything. I feel like hey we live in a free country where we are able to express our opinions on anything we want to right? so why not take advantage of that? there are a lot of people around the world who don't have that freedom like we do and I always thank god that I live in such a great place.I never really seem to understand why people are so afraid to speak they're mind at times it astonishes me to this day. Well enough about that let me tell you guys a bit about myself. I'm 5"5, 145 pounds, light skinned with dark brown eyes and electric black hair. You can find me wearing a pair of sweats with a sweater and huge sunglasses on with my bangs flying all over my face, or you can find me wearing a pair of black tights with bright red heels and a black turtle neck sweater with gold jewelry falling down my neck with huge gold earrings weighing down my ears carrying around a leopard print clutch. Yes you guys have guessed it I'm a scrub during the day but as hot as the sun in the night time. Now that you know a little bit about my appearance let me give u guys a bit on my background and and such. I'm African and Swiss. Born in Switzerland moved to Canada at 2months, yes i know your wondering why the hell was I born in Alps well my parents were both born in Africa in the Congo and both of them went to University in Switzerland they met there and boom bam had pretty little me! crazy story I know but hey that's life right?...I have 3 siblings; an older sister, younger sister, and younger brother so yes I am stuck in the middle! I've got the biggest family you could ever imagine everyday I find out about a new cousin or some long lost cousin that I've never seen before. My family is VERY huge 14 uncles and aunts on BOTH my parents side so you could imagine! So right now I am in my first year at college in London ON yes i said it boring old London I cannot stand that city but that's a totally different story. I'm taking Journalism-Broadcasting. My dream is to be a host of my own talk show, to be the next Oprah Winfrey or Tyra Banks. Why Oprah and Tyra you ask? I just feel that Oprah and Tyra have this charisma and they're not afraid to speak on anything; especially Tyra banks I feel is really good at this she is not afraid to speak her mind whatever comes through her mind she says it without fear or holding back, and that's what I love so much about them and that's what I think everybody should strive to do, which is to speak your mind without the fear of what somebody else is going to say and so that's why I see Miss Oprah Winfrey and Miss Tyra Banks to be my idols. Right now I am studying in Canada but will be interning in the States in two years for at least a period of 2 years. I may not be American but Obama is my savior. He to me is the dream that all Americans and not only Americans the WORLD have been longing for; and that dream is finally here. Oh wait! you guys are probably wondering why I call myself Baarbie well it was a name that was given to me when I was younger I used to hate it when people called me by baarbie but eventually got used to it and inherited the name but i decided to add Socialite with it because I think that I am a socialite...Trust me if you lived where i live you'd know what I'm talking about so i added Socialite to the baarbie and then decided to add an extra "a" in barbie to make it unique, some people call me by baarbie or the monster or loud mouth or my favorite mama Africa but I just prefer Miss Baarbie. So I hope my little story or blog as you guys might want to call it has helped you guys to get to know me better, and so when you do see my blogs you could possibly understand where I'm coming from. I look forward to writing more of these blogs for you guys to read, they actually clear my head up when I write these things so I will be doing this quite often.

xoxo

Baarbie